FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the Ma Joie magnetic system work?

The dildo and clitoral stimulator attach to the lingerie harness via a patented magnetic clip. Bring the piece close, the magnet aligns it automatically, rotate 90° and it locks in place. All in under 5 seconds — no strap adjustments needed.

Which dildo size should I choose, S or M?

Size S (14 cm) is recommended for beginners or partners who prefer gentler stimulation. Size M (17 cm) is ideal for those with more experience or who want deeper penetration. When in doubt, start with S — you can always move up to M later.

Does the clitoral stimulator really work without vibration?

Yes, completely. The Ma Joie Clitoral Stimulator is activated solely by friction — the natural pressure and hip movement during penetration is enough. No battery, no charging, no vibration. Just amplified mechanical pleasure.

Are Ma Joie products body-safe?

Absolutely. The dildo and stimulator are made from 100% body-safe medical silicone — phthalate-free, BPA-free, non-porous and hypoallergenic. The harness is made from polyamide lace + lycra, tested for prolonged skin contact.

How do I clean Ma Joie products?

The dildo and stimulator can be cleaned with warm water and mild soap, or sterilized (boiling is supported). Remove the magnets before any sterilization. The lingerie harness can be hand washed or machine washed at 30°C — use a laundry bag to protect the lace.

What harness size should I order?

The Ma Joie harness is available from XXS to XXXL. It fits like underwear — choose your usual lingerie size. Check our size guide for exact hip and waist measurements.

Can the Ma Joie strap-on be used without the stimulator?

Yes. You can use the Harness + Dildo without the Clitoral Stimulator. The stimulator is optional — many couples start with the harness + dildo, then add the stimulator for a mutual pleasure experience.

Is delivery discreet?

Yes, 100%. All Ma Joie orders are shipped in plain, neutral packaging with no visible logo or content indication. The name that appears on your bank statement is also neutral.

Does Ma Joie ship outside France?

Yes! Ma Joie ships throughout Europe. Delivery times and costs vary by country — check our shipping page for details.

Can I return a Ma Joie product?

For hygiene reasons, pleasure products (dildo and stimulator) cannot be returned once opened. The lingerie harness can be returned in its original packaging within 14 days. Contact our customer service if you have an issue — we always work to find a solution.

Is the Ma Joie harness designed only for lesbians?

Ma Joie was born in the lesbian and queer community. But our products are for all people with a vulva who want to explore strap-on pleasure — whether lesbian, bisexual, non-binary, or in a straight couple. Pleasure has no gender.

Does the stimulator cause double penetration?

No. The Ma Joie Clitoral Stimulator is non-penetrative — it sits against the clitoris outside the vagina. External friction stimulation only, no penetration for the wearer.

Can I use lubricants with Ma Joie products?

Yes, and we strongly recommend water-based lubricant. Avoid silicone-based lubricants with the silicone dildo and stimulator — they can degrade the material over time.

Can the harness be worn as lingerie?

Absolutely. Its high-waist Brazilian cut and black lace make it beautiful enough to wear as standalone lingerie — no need to hide it under other underwear.