The strapon is often linked to the world of porn or BDSM. In fact, it is also widely used in vanilla sex. There are very good reasons to introduce the strapon into the couple, whatever the type of couple, and in this article we will list the 5 most important ones.
Choosing the 5 good reasons to introduce the strapon into the couple was not us but data from our market research in which we interviewed 200 people who use the strapon regularly. We found that the stereotypes that hover around the strapon have nothing (or almost nothing) to do with the real reasons why people decide to wear it.
Among the most prevalent stereotypes relate primarily to lesbian couples. The strapon is often thought of as a penis replacement object. This is not so; it is an extremely phallocentric view of sexuality. Other parts of the body, such as fingers, can also be used for penetrative sex. The strapon is just another means of making penetrative sex possible. To understand how to get started you can read our guides on how to use a strapon, how to choose one, and also how to introduce a new sextoy into your couple.
During our research we found out that people who use strapons do so mainly for 5 reasons.
Having a deeper connection with one's partner
Using a strapon allows a deep or deeper connection with your partner. Why does this happen? Let's immediately think of a physical rapprochement of bodies, particularly between two women the use of the strapon causes penetrative movements to be smoother than those with fingers.
Having your hands free and being able to use them for different and complementary stimulations to penetration
The second reason for introducing the strapon to the couple is to have the possibility of having sex with free hands. In this case, the hands can be used for other types of stimulation, such as clitoral stimulation during penetration or to stimulate other erogenous zones on our partner's body. The erogenous zones are not always the same; the discovery of these is done through getting to know our partner. Ask and experiment with her/him, there is a whole world of pleasure to be discovered together.
In straight couples (but not only) you can experience the pleasures of pegging
Pegging one of the most taboo topics among straight couples, which is a shame because it gives endless joys. Pegging allows you to stimulate one of the most erogenous areas of the male body, the prostate. To begin with the practice of pegging we can help ourselves by starting with fingers or small objects, we suggest anal plugs or dildos for anal penetration around 7 cm and 2/3 cm maximum diameter.
Break up the routine with exciting new practices
Sex is beautiful because it is varied. Adding a new practice to routine sex can help the couple find each other again. Not only can the connection between partners improve but you can also share new fun and pleasurable moments together. Sex is not about the ultimate goal of orgasm, sex is between people who want each other and want to discover each other and share moments and experiences together, and the strapon can be a good companion for all this.
The strapon is used to lengthen penetrative sex in straight couples.
Men who wear strapons are not often talked about, but they are a not insignificant percentage. The strapon can be a very valuable support for those who want to prolong penetrative sex, for those suffering from premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction of various kinds. Men who can decentralize the penis in sexual intercourse make their partners more satisfiedə. Most importantly, decentralizing the penis and erection helps relieve performance anxiety, which is one of the most common reasons for erectile dysfunction.
Conclusion
Whether you want to break your routine with your partner, whether you want to have your hands free to accompany penetration with new stimulation, or whether you want to experience the joys of pegging, the strapon is the right sextoy for you. No matter what kind of couple you are in-straight/gay/lesbian/trans-the strapon is a very valuable ally for having fun together. Decentralizing the penis and erection also help relieve performance anxiety allowing bothə ə partners to enjoy more and even better.