Welcome to 2025, queens, kings, and everyone in between. We’d love to say this year started with a bang, but honestly, it doesn’t deserve the compliment. With Meta deciding to ease up on moderation (hello, trolls and hate speech) and a world that keeps reminding us the rainbow doesn’t always shine as bright as it should, we could easily pull the covers over our heads and cancel the year already.
But at Ma Joie, defeatism is not on the menu. Instead, it’s in moments like these that we roll up our sleeves. 2025 will be the year we reclaim our bodies, our desires, and our joy, no matter what. So, grab a seat, turn on your favorite queer playlist, and let us inspire you with the best queer sexual resolutions for a badass year.
1. Decolonize Sex, One Laugh at a Time.
Pleasure is political. Every orgasm, every choice, every laugh during sex is a middle finger to oppressive norms. This year, we’re exploring new ways to enjoy ourselves, free from the pressure of heteronormative expectations.
Take the strap-on for women, for example. It’s far more than just an accessory—it smashes stereotypes and unlocks new realms of pleasure. Curious? Check out our simple positions for beginners and unleash your creativity.
2. Talk About Consent Like the Weather.
Consent is non-negotiable. This year, we’re making conversations about consent as natural as asking if someone wants coffee or tea. Want to try a comfortable strap-on or a new toy for couples? Talk about it! These conversations aren’t just necessary—they can be downright sexy.
Need tips to get started? Read our advice on introducing a toy into your relationship and turn your ideas into reality.
3. Rediscover the Art of Self-Pleasure (Because No One Does It Better Than You).
Your body is an adventure, and no one knows it better than you do. In 2025, we’re diving into self-exploration with toys (yes, solo strap-ons are a thing!), lubricants, or even just a new way to touch yourself.
Want to spice things up? Our lubricant guide is a must-read for solo or partnered play.
4. Demand Queer Sex Education.
Queer women deserve more than silence and clichés. This year, we’re taking control by seeking out resources that reflect who we are and what we need. Because an empowered sexuality starts with an enlightened understanding of our bodies and desires.
For practical and empowering advice, check out our 5 tips for fulfilling lesbian sexuality.
5. Break Out of the Closet of Stereotypes.
Let’s ditch the idea that sex between women has to look like porn: exaggerated, unrealistic, and designed for the male gaze. You don’t have to love BDSM or be a strap-on pro to give it a try.
A strap-on for women can be soft, sensual, and fun, and using one doesn’t have to involve power play—unless that’s what you’re into, of course! We tackle these misconceptions head-on in our article about strap-on stereotypes. Go take a look; it might just change your perspective.
6. Speak, Listen, Evolve.
Sexual communication is your secret weapon for a fulfilling intimate life. Talking about your desires, fears, or even dislikes is the beginning of something magical. Listen to your partner and open doors together.
Need help breaking through inhibitions? Check out our tips for exploring intimacy with confidence.
7. Make Peace with Your Desires.
Desires aren’t always politically correct—and that’s perfectly fine. Whether you’re curious about trying toys for women in couples or a comfortable strap-on, or just in the mood for Netflix and cuddles, everything is valid.
Need a nudge? Read our 5 good reasons to introduce a strap-on into your relationship and see how your desires can become reality.
8. Learn to Talk About Sex Like a Pro.
If sex is a dance, communication is the beat. It’s not always easy, but speaking openly about your desires and boundaries is the best way to create unique chemistry. Whether it’s introducing a toy, trying a strap-on, or simply better understanding your partner, don’t shy away from the conversation.
For inspiration, explore our tips on positions for beginners with strap-ons.
9. Experiment with Your Partners.
Your sexuality is an adventure, so why not try something new? Whether it’s a comfortable strap-on, new positions, or a toy designed for couples, 2025 is the year of exploration.
Not sure where to start? Our guide to choosing the right strap-on is here to help.
10. Sex is Joyful, Damn It!
Perfection is overrated. Queer sex is messy, spontaneous, often hilarious, and always liberating. This year, we’re embracing the fun without the pressure to perform.
To refresh your intimate life, check out our tips for reigniting desire.
Conclusion: 2025, the Year of Queer Revolution.
2025 is the year we reclaim our bodies and our sexuality. Whether you’re exploring toys, curious about strap-ons for women, or just looking for new ways to have fun, Ma Joie is here for every step of the journey.
Ready to revolutionize your pleasure? Explore our blog for even more unapologetically joyful queer inspiration. Long live pleasure—and long live you!