Introducing a new sex toy into a relationship can be a fun way to connect with your partner, enhance your intimacy, and experience new sensations together. Here are some tips on how to introduce a new sex toy into your relationship. One of the most commonly used sex toys for couples is the strap-on. Why? Because the joys it brings are endless, for both straight and non-straight couples. In this article, we'll explore some positions for beginners to get comfortable with this sex toy.
1. Missionary
The missionary position is a classic for two reasons: it's beautiful and easy. This position allows for eye contact and immediate communication, long kisses, and caresses. Additionally, you can stimulate your partner's genitals with your hands to increase pleasure. The instructions are very simple:
- The person wearing the strap-on positions themselves on top of the partner lying on their back.
- The partner can keep their legs bent or rest them on the shoulders of the person wearing the strap-on for deeper penetration. However, both the prostate gland and the G-spot inside the vagina do not require deep penetration to be stimulated. In fact, deep penetration is often uncomfortable. Let your partner's preferences guide you.
- Don't rush, start slowly, and try to connect with your and your partner's sensations.
2. Modified Doggy Style
The doggy style position is great for intense penetration. We do not recommend the classic doggy style with the partner on all fours. Instead, we suggest lying on top of the partner who is on their stomach with legs slightly apart. This way, you can continue to stimulate your partner with kisses on the neck and caresses on the nape.
This position allows for better feeling of the penetration, avoiding going too deep and causing discomfort or pain. We recommend proceeding as follows:
- The partner lies on their stomach, possibly with legs slightly apart.
- The person wearing the strap-on positions themselves on top of the partner, maintaining body contact for more intense sensations.
- This position allows for good control of the rhythm and taking care of your partner while staying close.
The advantage of using the Ma Joie strap-on is that in rear positions, you can adjust the curvature of the dildo to continue stimulating the G-spot effectively.
3. Cowgirl or Cowboy
With the cowgirl position and the clitoral stimulator worn by the person with the strap-on, get ready for fireworks. This is the best position to ensure the clitoral stimulator takes care of your clitoris while penetrating your partner. This position allows you to look at each other while enjoying together <3. Here's how to do it:
- The person wearing the strap-on lies on their back.
- The partner positions themselves on top, sitting on the strap-on with legs on either side of the wearer.
- The partner can adjust the rhythm and intensity as they please.
- Don't forget the clitoral stimulator for an unforgettable experience.
4. Spooning
The spooning position is intimate and perfect for a slow and sensual rhythm, to whisper sweet or dirty words in each other's ears, to kiss and nibble the neck. Here's how to do it:
- Both partners lie on their sides, one behind the other.
- The person wearing the strap-on positions themselves behind the partner and guides the penetration, wrapping their body around the partner.
- You can masturbate or caress your partner's genitals for a more intense orgasm and stimulation.
- This position allows for close body contact and favors caresses along the body.
5. Reverse Cowgirl or Reverse Cowboy
Similar to the cowgirl position, but offers a different angle of penetration. With the Ma Joie strap-on, you can adjust the curvature of the dildo to stimulate the G-spot correctly in all positions. Here's some advice on how to proceed:
- The person wearing the strap-on lies on their back.
- The partner positions themselves on top but facing the opposite direction.
- This position allows the partner to control the rhythm while offering a different view for both.
- Feel free to admire your partner's sexy back.
Tips for Using a Strap-On
- Communication: Talk openly with your partner about your preferences and limits.
- Lubricant: Use plenty of lubricant to facilitate penetration and increase comfort. Be aware that anal lubricant has a different pH than vaginal lubricant, so make sure to buy and use the one that is suitable for your intended use.
- Cleaning: Ensure to clean the strap-on before and after use to maintain good hygiene. Always wash it with neutral soap and store it in a clean place.
- Warming Up: Spend time on foreplay to prepare your body and mind for the experience.
you can find more on how to use the strapon on our full article here
Exploring these positions can help you find what works best for you and your partner, making the strap-on experience even more enjoyable and satisfying. Don't forget aftercare at the end; taking care of your partner after each sexual practice is essential.